Every plan walks through the practical steps in the right order, with the phone numbers, form names, and deadlines you actually need. Topics covered include:
The first 24 to 72 hours
How to get a formal pronouncement of death in any setting, secure the home and pets, locate the will and trust, register organ-donation wishes, and choose a funeral or cremation provider. Direct cremation typically runs $1,000 to $3,000; full traditional service $7,000 to $12,000. You are not required to use the funeral home that picks up the body.
Death certificates and vital records
Every state's vital records office, the cost per copy ($5 to $32), how many to order (we recommend 10 to 15), and the authorized online provider for most states (VitalChek). Includes state-specific processing times and any restricted-access rules.
Funeral and burial planning
NFDA price-list rights, comparing direct cremation vs. traditional service, free National Cemetery burial for veterans (Form 40-10007), free headstones and markers (Form 40-1330), the burial flag (Form 27-2008), and the Presidential Memorial Certificate (Form 40-0247).
Social Security notification and survivor benefits
Form SSA-721 to report the death (you cannot do this online), Form SSA-8 for the $255 lump-sum payment (must apply within 2 years), Form SSA-10 for surviving-spouse monthly benefits, Form SSA-4 for surviving children. Includes how to handle benefit deposits received after the date of death.
VA burial benefits and survivor pensions
For veterans: Form 21P-530EZ for the burial allowance (up to $2,000 for service-connected deaths, $1,002 burial + $1,002 plot for non-service-connected as of October 2025), Dependency and Indemnity Compensation (DIC) for surviving spouses at $1,699.36/month tax-free as of December 2025, CHAMPVA health coverage (Form 10-10d), Chapter 35 DEA education benefits, and the surviving-spouse VA home loan with funding fee waived.
IRS forms and federal estate tax
Form 56 fiduciary notice, the deceased's final Form 1040 (due April 15 of the following year), Form 1310 to claim a refund (revised December 2025), Form 706 federal estate tax (only when the estate exceeds the $15M exemption made permanent by the OBBBA), Form 1041 estate income tax (required at $600 of estate income), and the immediate online EIN process via Form SS-4.
State probate basics for all 50 states + DC
Your state's probate court, small-estate affidavit threshold (varies from Rhode Island's $15,000 to Wyoming's $400,000), filing deadline (Florida 10 days, Illinois 30 days, Texas 4 years, Missouri 1 year), whether transfer-on-death (TOD) deeds are available for real estate, vehicle title transfer forms, and any community-property considerations.
State estate and inheritance taxes
The 13 states + DC that levy an estate tax (CT, DC, HI, IL, ME, MD, MA, MN, NY, OR, RI, VT, WA) and the 5 states with an inheritance tax (KY, MD, NE, NJ, PA). Maryland is the only state with both. Includes 2025/2026 exemptions, rates, due dates, and special rules like Connecticut's required CT-706 NT filing for every estate.
Retirement accounts under the SECURE Act
The 10-year rule for non-spouse beneficiaries (with annual RMDs in years 1 to 9 now enforced as of 2025), the spouse rollover option, eligible designated beneficiaries who escape the 10-year rule, and where to search for a lost retirement account: lostandfound.dol.gov (SECURE 2.0), efast.dol.gov (Form 5500), and pbgc.gov (terminated defined-benefit plans).
Life insurance and the NAIC Policy Locator
How to file a life insurance claim, why beneficiary designations override the will, the 2-year contestability period, the slayer-rule protection in every state, and the free NAIC Life Insurance Policy Locator that has surfaced over $13.18 billion in benefits since 2016. Plus the Lost Policy Finder tool to walk through every other search method.
Notifying the credit bureaus and stopping fraud
The dedicated deceased-person lines for Equifax (1-888-548-7878), Experian (1-888-397-3742), and TransUnion (1-833-395-6938), how to request a "Deceased: Do Not Issue Credit" alert, what documentation to send, USPS Form 3575 to forward mail (NOT Form 1583, which is widely confused with it), and DMAchoice.org "Deceased Do Not Contact" registration.
Special situations
Living trusts and successor-trustee duties (including state notice deadlines like California's 60-day rule under Prob. Code §16061.7), wills and intestate succession when there isn't one, business succession by entity type, minor children and guardianship, the Medicaid Estate Recovery Program (MERP) warning before transferring property, cryptocurrency and digital assets under RUFADAA (now in 46+ states), and pet trusts (legal in all 50 states).